What the hell is up with them? Why do they agree to this, so they can divorce and take your money? Do you marry them and they leave you? I have no idea about ‘Russian Mail Order Brides‘ if you know anything, please tell me. any info you have or advice. yahoo answers is made for a reason…to answer. please don’t be mean. =[
These women don’t actually intend to leave. They’re desperate for the security of a lifelong husband and home where they are financially comfortable and free of uncertainty.
These things are very hard for them to come by in Russia and so they are willing to blind marry someone moderately wealthy in a prosperous country like the US. They believe Western men won’t be abusive and simply hope for a kind husband to look after them.
For this they don’t mind sacrificing the whole falling in love business and many are confident they will grow to love their husbands and be loved in return.
Even though they ’sell’ their looks it’s not like prostitution at all as they’re only looking for one man and home and not some cash payment. It sounds crazy to us but it does make sense from their point of view.
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Russia lost a lot of men during the war in Afghanistan and there is a huge shortage of men compared to women.
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"Mail-order bride is a label applied to a woman who publishes her intent to marry someone from another - usually more financially developed - country."
"Historically, mail-order brides were women who listed themselves in catalogs and were selected by men for marriage. Sometimes the men and women involved were citizens of different countries, e.g. women from European countries moving to the United States during the 18th and 19th centuries, and sometimes they involved citizens of the same country."
So basically women look for a guy who is financially stable, not necessarily divorce to take your money.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mail-order_bride
know a guy who got scammed 50,000 for his russian ‘bride’. they can divorce you as easily as any other bride plus who know they actually just want money so divorce is the logical option. i have however heard of people getting asian (thailand) brides but they go over there and find them. seems to have worked.
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These women don’t actually intend to leave. They’re desperate for the security of a lifelong husband and home where they are financially comfortable and free of uncertainty.
These things are very hard for them to come by in Russia and so they are willing to blind marry someone moderately wealthy in a prosperous country like the US. They believe Western men won’t be abusive and simply hope for a kind husband to look after them.
For this they don’t mind sacrificing the whole falling in love business and many are confident they will grow to love their husbands and be loved in return.
Even though they ’sell’ their looks it’s not like prostitution at all as they’re only looking for one man and home and not some cash payment. It sounds crazy to us but it does make sense from their point of view.
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my husband had a friend that was doing this. they are willing. the reason why this is happening is because there is a somewhere like 20 female to 1 male . its been this way sense the 40s now its bad. so that leave a lot of woman with out husbands. when russia became free to live the country is how this got started . there are a lot of men in the usa and other countries that cant get woman for what ever reason. so they go there looking for woman you don’t have to have much to get them to marry you because they are so poor there. they just want a house a car and a man that works and could care about them. men there treat the woman bad because they can a woman there don’t have any men to chose from so they take what they can get. all so it fall on these woman to take care of there family’s so it makes it even harder to get a man they don’t want to take on there family’s to take care of . i do believe that you have to be careful finding these woman because they are looking to get to the usa. but what i’ve hear is a lot of these woman stay with the man that brought them here. because they fall in love or justfeell they own it to the man that help them and there family.
it takes like sometimes up to 5 to 10 years to became a us citizen. so these men get there far share of these woman. i say he knows the chances and she knows he couldturnn it to a dick once there here but i say they both know and its there life not ours. i do always tell men that in most stats in the us its a 5woman to 1man so there are a lot of woman out there its just harder here to win on over and men are lazy and want a fast way to a wife and a fuck . i’m a woman i for my own kind i don’t like it that men do this because in the long run this willturnn on woman and we will be like russia and not be able to find a man and i think that is sad for my kids and all mygrand kidss and so on. there is some one for everyone itdon’tt’ take going to the other side of the world to get a woman and take a chance of herLivingg you when she gets her green card.
i hope it helps
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